You know quitting smoking is hard, whether you have personal experience or not. If a friend, family member or loved one is trying to stop smoking, it can be difficult to know how to help them, but quitting is one of the best decisions they can make for their health.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), smoking is the number one risk factor for developing lung cancer, and smoking causes more than 480,000 deaths in the U.S. each year.
Dawn Stiefeld, RRT, a wellness education specialist with Sharp Rees-Stealy’s Center for Health Management, offers these five tips to give your loved one the support they need to quit smoking.
- Start with a conversation.
When your loved one first decides to quit smoking, it’s important to sit down and have a conversation. Start by asking about their fears, hesitations and hopes. In return, ask them what they need from you.
“You have to communicate that you’re there to help them adjust and rearrange their lifestyle, whatever that may entail,” Stiefeld says. She encourages using open-ended questions, such as, “How are you feeling?”
- Seek out resources.
One way you can help someone on their journey to a smoke-free life is to get educated yourself. Learn what tools are available. For example, the American Cancer Society and American Lung Association offer tips for helping someone who wants to quit smoking.
“Finding information for yourself is just as vital as finding information for the person quitting,” Stiefeld says. You can also gather a list of resources your loved one can use themselves. Look for tobacco cessation classes, support groups or articles that they may find useful.
- Understand what quitting will entail.
It’s important to know that everyone quits using different methods, so always try to be patient and understanding. Keep in mind that cutting out cigarettes can be very stressful for the person quitting.
“Be prepared for when withdrawals come at different stages of the quit journey,” Stiefeld says. Be ready to have open and honest conversations with your loved one about what they are going through.
- Plan fun activities and outings.
Instead of turning to smoking when they are stressed or bored, your loved one should stay busy with other activities they enjoy.
“Look for opportunities to help keep their mind occupied, such as puzzles, painting or fitness classes. Keeping them busy is key,” Stiefeld advises. Going for a long drive or watching the sunset are a few other simple suggestions.
- Focus on the positives.
While your loved one may want to dwell on their setbacks, help redirect those thoughts to focus on what they are doing right. Compliment them on their progress and let them know you are proud of them. When they do have setbacks, you can encourage them by saying things such as, “You are doing really well” and “We can get you back on your path.”
Quitting smoking is challenging and takes time. Your support can help a loved one through setbacks and relapses, which may happen. By keeping these tips in mind, you can play an important supporting role in your loved one’s journey to a smoke-free life.
Learn more about online and in-person smoking cessation classes offered by Sharp Rees-Stealy’s Center for Health Management.
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